Remember that never-stopping fire of love and romance between you and your partner experienced a couple of years after your marriage? What’s keeping you from having that romantic and passionate times with your partner now? And how can you rekindle the romance in your married life?
There are answers to all your questions if you are open to thinking and following these suggestions. You can reinitiate a romantic married life as a new couple if you still have the same feelings of love and care towards your partner. So here are the ways and suggestions that you need to act on to spark the fire of love again.
1. Hold your partner’s hand with love and care.
Married life is not all about providing the living and basic needs. It is also not about managing the home and kitchen as a wife. There is more than that, and you have to keep doing it to keep romance in your relationship alive.
Hold your partner’s hand often and show your love and care. Holding hands or hugging your partner means a lot. And if we look from the scientific angle, these small gestures help release Oxytocin. It is a hormone that is released during intercourse and orgasm. It also helps reduce stress and improve a happy feeling.
2. Show affection for a healthy married life
A common reason couples lose interest in sex is that they do it abruptly. They don’t allow their body to be ready for intercourse. Also, getting to foreplay instantly and in a hurry is not advisable. Instead, give yourself and your partner some time and use that time to rekindle the romance in your life. Setting mode before starting actual intercourse is very important. So, touch affectionately on different body parts of your partner and go on slowly. It will make her feel relaxed and ready for the lovemaking time.
3. Try different ways of romance.
To bring back the thrill and curiosity in your married life, you should try different ways of romance in your bedroom. Try sexy lingerie or naughty costume to give a different angle to your love games. Costumes of a sexy schoolgirl or flirty nurse for female and sexy cop or soldier for male can add a lot of fun and hotness to your bedroom.
4. Keep intimate time and routine separate.
Some couples do sex like a routine. It kills the purpose and joy in married life. If you want to enjoy sex like a new couple every time, keep it separate from your routine. Having a well-planned and prepared session for sexual intimacy is far better than having intercourse daily or too often. The first will give you a sense of contentedness, while later will give you a sense of boredom and make you tired. Keep your intimate time separate, and don’t talk about anything else during this time. You will feel the difference.
5. Try new things while making love.
If you are tired of doing sex the same way every time, it’s time to do something different. Wear erotic nightwear and play erotic games. You can try so many things for foreplay to light the fire of sex and make your partner beg for intercourse. Then it can be different sex positions. Learn and try multiple of them in a session to make your journey to orgasm even more enjoyable.
There are also many sex games and tools available online. For example, sex dices, sex toys, wish cards, BDSM kits, etc. Use them to apply random foreplay acts and sex positions for intensive pleasure. A BDSM kit works best to make your wild fantasies and erotic dreams come true.
Conclusion
There are many ways to bring your sex and romance life back to life even after many years of married life. Love, care, affection, preparation, and trying different tools and ways of enjoying intimate time will rekindle the romance in your married life.
